A Common Question
How do I know when I have established the Spirit communicator?
Answer
There is no required number of facts and no universal checklist.
The central question is whether the available evidence gives the recipient a reasonable basis for distinguishing the person being represented from other people who could also fit.
A name can contribute.
A relationship can contribute.
Personality, shared history, physical characteristics, occupation, habits, places, and other details can contribute.
But none automatically establishes identity by itself.
Several ordinary details may form a highly distinctive configuration. Several impressive details may still point toward more than one person.
The communicator is sufficiently established when the information supports one individual clearly enough that the identification no longer depends primarily upon the medium's assertion.
Absolute certainty is not required.
Evidential support is.
Introduction
To establish the Spirit communicator is not to establish that a Spirit individual exists.
Nor is the medium creating a relationship that was absent until the sitting began.
The evidential task is narrower.
It concerns the identity being presented.
When a medium says:
“I believe this is your father,”
the statement carries more responsibility than:
“I have a paternal feeling around this communication.”
A particular person is now being identified.
The question becomes:
What supports that conclusion?
The medium may experience a strong sense of who the person is.
The recipient may immediately think of someone.
A familiar name may appear.
Several details may seem to point in one direction.
Any of these can contribute.
None should become stronger simply because an answer is desired.
Establishing the communicator therefore asks the medium to look beyond the amount of information being presented.
The more important issue is whether the material discriminates.
Does it narrow reasonable alternatives?
Does it consistently relate to the same person?
Does it remain coherent when further information appears?
Does anything substantially contradict the identification?
The task is not to gather enough pieces to make a person seem convincing.
It is to allow the available evidence to determine how firmly the individual can be identified.
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